Support
For Victims & Survivors
Understanding what’s happening and finding positive choices for change.
Are you being abused? Are you looking for information to help you understand what’s happening and how to make positive choices for change?
If you are being abused, you need to know that you do not ‘deserve' it. You are not to blame for the violence or threats. Every human being has the right to live his or her own life without fear. The abuser is using abusive behaviour in an attempt to control you. If the abuse is allowed to continue it will probably get worse.
Things you can do to protect yourself
There are many services available on PEI that can help you. If you are not ready to do anything right now, that is your choice and it is okay.
- • Tell someone: Call the Island Helpline, Victim Services or PEI Family Violence Prevention Services. You do not have to give your name.
- • Learn about options: Community Legal Information is a good place to start.
- • Record incidents: If you can do this safely, a diary can help the police and the courts if you decide to do something later.
- • Medical attention: If you have been physically hurt, see your doctor or go to a hospital. You can choose to do this without making a police report.
- • Safety planning: Make a safety plan and, if you can do so safely, pack an emergency escape kit. Find more details along with determining your safe place.
Call 911 (the police) if you are in an emergency situation. You could also ask neighbours or friends to call for the police if they hear or see anything suspicious.